(Closed) Bachelor/Bachelorette parties on the same weekend??

posted 7 years ago in Parties
  • poll: Is it okay to have Bachelor/Bachelorette parties on the same weekend?
    Yes : (37 votes)
    93 %
    No : (3 votes)
    8 %
  • Post # 3
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    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: August 2011

    I think this is preferable.  That way you’re both out and having fun.  Unfortunately we couldn’t schedule ours on the same weekend.

    Post # 4
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    Newbee
    • Wedding: January 2012

    I think it is okay. Actually, there are even couples who do a combined party as it is a great way to save time and money. Holding your parties on the same weekend seem good, too. If you are renting out a specific place, you can have it reserved for two nights/days. You may even try asking for a nicer deal; you never know when you might get some good discount.

    Post # 5
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    Honey bee
    • Wedding: July 2011

    Ours are going to be on the same DAY. We are having Bridal Party come in from OOS on the Thursday before so we will have that Friday for our Parties so we can have the Saturday for our rehearsal and last minute stuff and the tie the knot in Sunday!

    Post # 6
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    Helper bee
    • Wedding: May 2011

    ours are going to be the same weekend, unintentionally though =_= long story short, everyone’s schedules worked out so it was that weekend. i think it also makes it easier to do wedding stuff, so we dont have two weekends that are sort of “wasted” away.

    Post # 7
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    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: June 2012

    same weekend = no one sitting at home wondering and worrying… heheh

    Post # 8
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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: June 2011

    I can’t see why not.. we’re having ours the same weekend.. and both are trips to Vegas, this way we don’t have two weekends apart and we aren’t sitting at home wishing we were in Vegas

    Post # 9
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    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: February 2010

    We didn’t but that’s just b/c it didn’t work out for us to. For mine, I felt bad leaving him home alone all weekend and for his I ended up going out with the girls to give me something to do. I think it would have been nice if we were both out at the same time.

    Post # 10
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: June 2011

    Mine is almost 1 month after his.  We are both doing destination bach parties!! Boy Im excited!

    Post # 11
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: April 2011

    We’re doing ours on the same day! We’ve planned it so that we will be in different cities though. I think it’s going to work out wonderfully because we’ll both be so caught up in our own activities that we won’t be sitting around wondering what each other is up to. Plus most of our friends are couples so all the girls are coming with me and the boys are going with him. Win win 🙂

    Post # 12
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    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: August 2010

    @Miss.Lace: I wanted to do it this way so that I wouldnt be worried about what Darling Husband was doing but it didnt work out that way. I think its so much better to have them on the same weekend. Then you wont even feel the need to talk to each other all the time!

    Post # 13
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    5271 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: October 2009

    Initially we were going to do them on the same weekend, but then my husband brought to my attention that my friends would prob pressure me to try to meet up w/ the boys – and he is right, I know some of my friends (whose SO went to my husbands bach party) prob would of been pressing the point to meet up. So to avoid that, we did seperate weekends.

    Post # 14
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: May 2011

    Ours are scheduled for the same weekend. It works out great! The only drawback is that we are friends with a couple who have a small baby, so one of them can’t go to the bachelor or bachelorette party.

    Post # 15
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: May 2011

    I think it would be better if they were the same night. Than one of us isn’t sitting at home just thinking about what the other is doing. We plan on doing ours the same night. Obviously different places.

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