Post # 1
My sister is getting married in October. I will be the Maid/Matron of Honor, but I am only 17.. I will be 18 when we have her Bachelorette party, and I can go to clubs and bars at 18, just can’t drink. I know that most of her wedding party will be 20-22 so they are legal to drink. What should I do.. Have a drinking bachelorette party or do something else? Or should I let someone 21 plan her bachelorette party?
Post # 4
You could do things in bars if you wanted, but not drink (depends on bar, some won’t let you in at all if underage and others have no problem doing so). This works well with bars that are also restaurants. My mind jumped to karaoke at Buffalo Wild Wings.
You could also eat at her favorite restaurant followed by an activity that she likes such as bowling, skate rink, laser tag, free makeovers at mall, etc…
Post # 5
My friend had her underage sister at her bachelorette party. Where we were she could get into the bars at 19. Other people bought her drinks. Otherwise, we went to the wineries where they didn’t card.
You should find out what kind of party your sister would like to have. Some people do not want to drink. If she wants something like the spa then go ahead and plan it. If it’s going to involve drinking/bars ask for another Bridesmaid or Best Man to plan it.
Post # 6
My BFF’s Maid/Matron of Honor is her 18 year old sister and we’re doing a Mary Kay party for people who dont like to go out and then getting changed and going out to a bar/restaraunt. Those places are likely to let you in with no issue since it is a restaraunt too. You might have to go a little earlier than people would normally go out (8:30-9) but it should be alright!!
Theres no need for you not to plan it!! There is tons to do!