(Closed) Bachelorette bs, canceling it…

posted 6 years ago in Parties
Post # 3
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

Well I would have a chat with her. Is combing the parties an option? Have everyone celebrate both of you getting married? That COULD be fun! Or you can just go ahead with your orginial plans and explain to her that you’d love to be there and celebrate for her, but your party had already made plans and reservations (etc) and that you hope she has a fun and safe evening. Even send her a ‘yay your getting married!’ card and a little gift.

It was rude for her not to double check with you, but I know as a busy planning bride if things don’t go as planned you make a plan B and you make it quick. She probably did that and completly blanked on your party.

 

Good luck!

Post # 4
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: January 2012 - Wynn Las Vegas/Bouchon Bistro

Just so I understand: her bachelorette party is on one day at one place, and your bachelorette party is on the next day at the same place?

Is the place a bar/club? In that case, I don’t think it actually matters. You can still go to the same bar with your friends two nights in a row and have a lot of fun. You will be there to celebrate your friend the first night; your friends will be there to celebrate you the next night.

Anyway, it seems like your friend has no idea that your party is supposed to be in the same place, so I doubt she scheduled it this way on purpose. I wouldn’t cancel your own party because of an accident.

Post # 6
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

Could you maybe do a double bachelorette party on the same night?

Post # 8
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

I would be a little upset but I thinkin combining the parties would be a good idea. I am sure you guys will be having some of the same friends their, and it would be much easier on everyone’s pockets.

 

Post # 9
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

I would say double bachelorette, but your friend’s behavior is awfully weird.  Why would she want to change plans so you’re doing the same things?  Am I the only one getting a SWF vibe?  O_o

Post # 11
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: January 2012 - Wynn Las Vegas/Bouchon Bistro

Can you switch your bachelorette party to another place that you like and enjoy? I know that it won’t be the same as going to the casino, but it seems extreme to cancel outright.

Post # 13
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2012

@TopazWedding:  If you will have different things to do within the casino, and different people attending each party… how are they so alike that you won’t be able to have fun?

Post # 15
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

Honestly, I think you’re overreacting here.  Your Bridesmaid or Best Man shouldn’t have to sacrifice her plans because you think you’ll be sick of the casino and don’t want to go 2 nights in a row.  If you had a bunch of mutual friends, I could understand being annoyed because it’s a lot to expect out of people, but since you don’t, I fail to see an issue here.  Her friends planned a party they wanted (and hopefully one your Bridesmaid or Best Man wanted) at a time and placed that worked for them.  Just like you friends did for you.  If it’s that big of a problem you can do something different for yours or just leave hers early.

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