(Closed) Bachelorette invitation

posted 5 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
105 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

@swimchick:  Don’t feel guilty whatsoever. I don’t think it should be expected of you to come but hopefully it’s more along the lines of, “you’re a great friend and want you to know the invite is there if you can make it” kind of thing.

Wish them a great time and say you wish you could attend.


Post # 4
2023 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

@swimchick:  Hey, if you cant go….ya cant go!  Dont feel bad.  If you really really feel like an awful person send a card that says you would love to go but cannot…maybe put a $20 in it and say its for a few drinks on you.

Post # 5
3267 posts
Sugar bee

@swimchick:  It is an invitation, not a summons.  If you cannot go for whatever reason you like, you can decline.  Don’t feel badly.

Post # 6
905 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: February 2014

Don’t feel guilty about not going! If you don’t want to/can’t afford it just don’t. If you’re still feeling guilty, contact the Maid/Matron of Honor and ask her if you can contribute anything, like buying her sash or an embarasing tiara or something. Send it with a little note telling her to have fun and that you wish her all the best. Cheap, thoughtful, and she’ll know you care even if you can’t be there. 

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