(Closed) Bachelorette Invite Question

posted 4 years ago in Parties
Post # 2
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2017

You don’t NEED to invite her, but it might be nice to offer. She might still decline as well. But if you really do not want her, you certainly don’t have to.

Post # 3
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2016

Ew I know the feeling!  I would invite her though to save some drama and just cross my fingers and toes she won’t/can’t come!!! And hey maybe she would be fun if she did come.

Post # 4
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: City, State

The polite thing to do would be to invite her. However, you don’t HAVE to do anything you don’t want to do.

Post # 5
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2016

I agree with PP.  You don’t need too, but if it will cause a lot of family drama, or really hurt feelings, you might want to offer…..  Since they have been dating for so long, it seems like she might be viewed as part of the family?  Ultimately, it is up to you though.  (Is she close to your FI’s sister who will be going?  If so, she might talk with her most of the night anyway.  12 people seems like a lot to me, so even if she does go, you won’t be stuck talking to her all night or something)

Post # 6
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2017

I also wanted to add: When FIs brother got married, Fiance was the Bridesmaid or Best Man but I was not invited to the bachelorette. I didn’t feel slighted what so ever – we aren’t that close (similar to your situation, they are older, but I would have been the only young one).

eta – and we were dating for like 6 or 7 years at that point, so way longer haha.

Post # 7
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2017

No.  I always thought bachelerotte parties are suppose to be close friends.  Sure it’s always nice to extend an offer but if you really don’t like her, then don’t invite her and don’t feel bad about it.

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