- 6 years ago
- Wedding: June 2012
My fiance is away for work right now but when we talked on the phone tonight the topic of our upcoming parties came up. I trust him 200%, but after reading a couple threads on here, I decided to bring up the topic of limits. I asked him what his were, what we could and could not do. He seemed completely confused! I told him that I didn’t care if he saw strippers, but that he needed to be hands-off and no kissing (even random girls at bars who aren’t strippers). I said lapdances are probably okay I just don’t want to hear all about it:) He sounded so surprised that I even brought it up, and said that those things are cheating in his book, he wouldn’t dream of it, and hoped I wouldn’t either. (Obviously!) I told him that I didn’t think he would, but that I wouldn’t have much right to be mad afterward if I hadn’t been straightforward with my expectations.
He says it’s okay if me and my girls have pillow fights in our underwear though. oh boys…
Anyone else discuss things beforehand?