- 7 years ago
- Wedding: September 2011
My wedding is very small; 34 people on the guest list, mostly family. A friend, not invited, wants to host a bachelorette party. We have discussed the fact that she is not on the guest list and while I’m grateful for her generosity, I feel uncomfortable with the idea. She insist that she understands my small wedding and guest list but she wants to do this. She says everyone knows it is small, immediate family only but people still want to celebrate with me. She has set a date and is working with another girl (who is invited) on the details.
My dilema: They’ve asked me for a guest list for the bachelorette party. Is it in bad form to invite anyone not invited to the wedding?