- 4 years ago
So my Maid/Matron of Honor wants to throw me a bachelorette party. I am fine with this but have a few concerns. I am not the typical party hard person which she knows and was going to do a spa day for me instead. This is great I think it would be nice since she and another one of my bridesmaid are under the age of 21. My concern is that none of my bridal party members really have the money to spend on my bachelorette party, my Maid/Matron of Honor included (her mom would give her the moeny). I don’t want to force this on anyone and I also think it might be akward. My bridal party consists of my cousin(MOH), my Future Sister-In-Law, and 2 good friends from when I was a kid that I grew up with. They are all different and have only met once.
I am wondering if I should tell her I don’t really need one and that the bridal shower she is hosting is enough. Any advice?