Post # 1
So anyone have dates set yet? If you do who is planning it?
I have a bachelorette set for May, no shower…I don’t think one will be happening. My mom said it’s usually the Mother-In-Law who plans it. Is that true? If it is then there is even less chance it will happen haha.
Post # 3
@REchick: my Maid/Matron of Honor is planning both. i have dates set in april and june.
Post # 4
My aunt is hosting a shower for me in June (I will be in my hometown for a friend’s wedding, so it was a convenient time to do it). No idea when a bachelorette will happen, but a friend who lives near me is organizing it with one of my bridesmaids.
I don’t think it necessarily has to be Future Mother-In-Law who throws you a shower… I think usually it’s a bridesmaid or female relative. I didn’t think I would be having one at first, so you never know if someone will
Post # 5
I’m almost positive my mom and my Future Mother-In-Law are doing the shower. Mostly my mom though.
My Maid/Matron of Honor is doing my bachelorette and it’s in May. I’m excited. 🙂
Post # 6
Your wedding party should be planning it
Post # 7
This is the most stressful part for me right now! I have one shower planned by my amazing MOC and family friend, but my maids have been talking about planning a shower and a bachelorette for months with no decisions being made. It’s been extremely difficult for me to stay out of it (and some would say that I’m failing miserably at that).
So, to answer your question: one shower planned for May 3rd; one kind of planned for April 26th; and no bachelorette in sight.
Post # 8
My shower is being planned by my sister and mother I think. they wont tell me anything other than it will be May 18. I don’t think i’m doing a bachlorette party. it’s not really my thing. Ive never heard that your Future Mother-In-Law is supposed to do the shower i just thought it was a relative or close friend
Post # 9
My shower is on May 25th, and bachelorette party is June 28th-30th (vegas)
Me and my mom planned the shower, me and Maid/Matron of Honor planned the BH party
Post # 10
Just found out one of my bridesmaids isn’t attending the bachelorette…she decided to go to a concert and says she will have to see what the plans are afterwards. That will determine if she comes to later on. She has apparently known about it since around December. 🙁 whatever I guess…
Post # 11
@REchick: I know that my bridesmaids are planning something (one of them is terrible at keeping secrets, lol, and while she certainly didn’t give anything away, she let me know there’s something in the works). I don’t have any idea of when or where it will be though, and no one has asked me for available dates yet.
I also think there is a shower in the works, as my mom asked me recently where I registered, and then I noticed two items have been purchased off of our registry. Again, I have no idea when or where that will be either.
Post # 12
- Wedding: July 2014 - Prague
We have no bridal party, but I’ll probably have a hen night once my friends get into town. My Fiance isn’t having a bachelor party and no one is hosting a shower for me.
Post # 13
My shower is either My 24th or 25th planned by my mom and sis. As for bachelorette– I have no idea. I know my sister is in charge which makes me feel better because some of my friends can be a bit much and I’m thinking of something more along the lines of wine tasting or a spa rather than clubbing all night.
Post # 14
I opted for a wine taasting and spa weekend getaway and I am SO EXCITED! Mine will be March 28-30.
Post # 15
I just found out that my BMs have planned a shower for me for June 20th. Exciting!
They are also planning a girls shopping weekend to the outlet mall/bachelorette party, but I don’t know the dates for that yet.
Post # 16
Yesss!! that sounds great! I am hoping to do something along the same lines. There are small vineyards not too far from me, so it seems doable 🙂