- 6 years ago
Our original plan was to book a package in Niagara Falls for a night, it included hotel room, dinner at a steakhouse, breakfast at Applebee’s and VIP entrance to 2 different clubs. The catch is that there’s max 5 people in a room and we have 8 wanting to come, one that may have to back out due to recent health problems. So then one Bridesmaid or Best Man and I decided it might be a better idea to take a limo from her house to Toronto, go clubbing and crash at her house for the night thus saving a lot of cash and probably headaches. 3 people have already paid for the hotel package and will get $$ back if we go with the limo idea instead. I started asking BMs if they think this is a better idea and so far they do, with the exception of one. When I told her, I got 50 questions about what happened with the hotel and she thought it was booked and why are we doing this, so on and so forth. Well, it’s because I’m getting married in 11 weeks and I’m the one planning my own bachelorette since no one else has stepped up. I don’t have the time or energy to deal with this but yet I am because everyone is so excited to go out for my bach. This same Bridesmaid or Best Man has not done anything (please don’t jump on me about BMs not being slaves, I am well aware they are not but when the rest have been awesome and one is slacking its hard not to think this way) and so I was hoping she’d say, oh I’ll do it, don’t worry. No, instead I get, well keep me posted. &^%$!! I’m so frustrated right now I just want to say f*** it and forget it. Does anyone have any good advice?