- 5 years ago
- Wedding: March 2013
Help! I don’t want to go on my bachelorette anymore, its turning into everyone elses party but my own 🙁 My bridal party didn’t plan my bachelorette until the last minute and the planning was super vauge-everyone was expected to get to the location on their own (its about 200 miles from where we all live) My bridal party is primilary my family/uber close family friends. I’ve invited some fairly close friends to go to my bachelorette. They don’t really know my bridal party.
I’ve wanted to fly the entire time because I can’t really afford anymore time off work. At first my friends were down but my bridal party wasn’t.I didn’t care cause I know its kind of pricey and for such a short distance, I can see why you would pass. Then overnight my friends all made transport arrangements… so I’m flying to my bachelorette alone?
Some of my bridal party has also apparently invited some girls who I kind of know but necessarily wouldn’t have invited since we aren’t close friends.. basically incase they don’t want to hang out with my other friends that they don’t know…
I know it sounds stupid but I am also super upset because I am also apparently paying my own way for the weekend? I can see them not wanting to pay for my food or even my flight but I am having to front for my hotel bill… Sorry I just needed to vent… Anyone else have bachelorette horror stories?