(Closed) Bachelorette Party Drama…LONG

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
2104 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

She is totally out of line.  It’s not her party, nor is it her job to plan the party.  I think by virtue of how she was rude to the Maid/Matron of Honor (and you), you need to be honest with her.  Tell her the spa party is what YOU asked for, and the Maid/Matron of Honor generously abided by your wishes.  Also let her know it is unacceptable to be saying rude things to the Maid/Matron of Honor and to be excluding anyone in the bridal party if something is to be planned.  If she doesn’t like someone on a personal level, she can suck it up and act like an adult through this process.  If that’s too difficult for her, she can step down from being a bridesmaid.  End of story.  She needs to stop acting like a child.

Post # 4
1471 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

She is way out of line and being very selfish, and I think she has forgotten that this it YOUR day and you should have what YOU want!!! Im not sure what to do, can you talk to her and tell her that the spa day is something you really do want and is something you are really looking forward to! and When she gets married you can plan a fun evening out!


Post # 6
2401 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

Who are these girls and do they even know you!?! My friends also know that I am not a partier and non-drinker and would prefer a certain outing to a night out drinking.

It sounds like Jane has a major problem with Maid/Matron of Honor that needs to be cleared.

Post # 7
2416 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

Yikes this is out of line….sorry you have to deal with this 🙁 I actually have my Maid/Matron of Honor coordinating the planning of the Bachelorette but she is including all the BM’s in the plans…so, in essence, they are agreeing on everything together to make sure they are all on the same page. From there, they will includes a bunch of my other friends but the plan will already be set in stone and they will either attend or not.

Sorry you have to deal with this…I know firsthand how difficult it can be to deal with the stress of planning problems within the bridal party. I hope it all works out!

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