(Closed) Bachelorette party expenses, please help!

posted 7 years ago in Parties
  • poll: Is it okay to ask everyone to pay for their own dinner and drinks?
    No, they are invited so they shouldn't have to pay a cent! : (0 votes)
    Yes, they are mostly bridesmaids too so they should financially be helping anyway. : (17 votes)
    49 %
    No, the MOH should pay for whatever the bride wants. : (0 votes)
    Yes, covering all the costs for the bride should be enough. : (18 votes)
    51 %
  • Post # 3
    1231 posts
    Bumble bee

    @cant.wait.to.be.mrs.d:  of course! You can even ask the other Bridal Party memebers to chip in for the brides dinner and drinks! That’s how I have always done it. Pay my way and split the bride’s way between everyone.

    Post # 4
    3175 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: May 2012

    I think it is standard to have everyone pay her own way at a bachelorette party. Also, the guests usually split the bride’s tab.

    Post # 5
    2638 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: November 2006

    @les105:  I think that’s how we’ve always done it, too.

    Post # 7
    6661 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: May 2010

    I’ve never been to a Bach party that I didn’t have to at least pay my own way adn 99% of the time I help split the bride’s dinner and drinks as well. While it would be nice to have a free night out as a non-bridesmaid, I would never expect it!

    Post # 8
    2414 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    I think you should all split dinner evenly and let people know this beforehand, and then yes, every girl for herself the night of! I think that’s perfectly fine!


    Post # 9
    5977 posts
    Bee Keeper

    I’ve always paid my way when goign to a bachelorette party, and I’ve almost always split the brides’ costs amongst bridesmaids if I was one. So I think you’re totally fine!

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