Post # 1
My cousin’s bachelorette party is this weekend. We’re going to a winery and spending the night at a bed and breakfast. One bridesmaid e-mailed all of the girls and asked if this was going to be a shower for my cousin. The Maid/Matron of Honor said that it wouldn’t be a shower for her, that we should show up to eat, drink, and be merry. I have taken that as we should not get her a bachelorette party gift. Should I e-mail the group to clarify? Or should I just not get a gift? No clue…I get so caught up in the little things!
Post # 3
I would take that as confirmation that there’s no official plan to bring gifts. Since it’s a bachelorette party, if you do want to give something, I’d say make it a (fairly inexpensive) crazy gag gift that she’d be embarrassed to open in front of grandma at the actual bridal shower. 🙂
Post # 4
I agree that it sounds like you have no obligation to bring a gift, but I would probably get a little something fun! My sister and I hosted the bachelorette party weekend for my other sister – some guests brought gifts and others did not, but it wasn’t awkward or anything.
A cute idea for a something that is not so scandalous (in case it’s not that kind of party) are those little bridal emergency kits. Like these:
Bride Essentials Survival Kit
Just a thought!
Post # 5
It’s fun getting gifts at the bach party. Bring something small if you feel weird about it.
Suggestions: Something fun she can wear that night? Like a flower or veil for her hair? Once we ‘made’ this girl wear BRIDE panties over her shorts. 🙂 It was fun. I got a boa and veil at mine. I also got this Bachelorette Party wine glass that was fun to drink out of during pregame. Also goodies are things for her to wear or use at the honeymoon! I also got this bride tank top that I love to work out in. Keeps me inspired?!
Post # 6
I agree with previous posters. Something little and cute she can use/wear the night of like a special glass to drink out of, bride shirt, etc
Post # 7
I also agree with others………….Its just a bachelorette party and you are not suppose to bring any gift for this occasion…..But if you want you can bring something not so inexpensive……………
I am facing the same situation for my friend’s bachelorette party but I am giving her a personalized sweetheart silver plated compact from