(Closed) Bachelorette Party Guest List

posted 7 years ago in Parties
Post # 3
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2012

euwwww awkward.  i’d like to know the answer to this, too.  sorry i don’t have an answer myself!

i’m having a smaller wedding (not super small), so there are like 10 of my closest girls i want to invite, and then there are 2 that are obviously close enough to be invited to the wedding, but i’m definitely not as close with as the others.  i guess i’m just going to invite them?

how large is your wedding?

Post # 4
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2012 - Sunset Harbour

“Actually, I am looking forward to having just the small gathering that we already organized. But make sure to tell so-and-so that I can’t wait to see them at the wedding!”

Post # 6
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377 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

Maybe you could just say that you would find it very awkward to have a guest at the bachelorette who is not invited to the wedding. I don’t necessarily even think that’s true, but it might make a good excuse.

Post # 8
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2012

oh ok, she’s just a weirdo.  completely ignore this.  if she asks you directly, you can do a couple things:

  • tell her your bridesmaids are planning it (which is probably true), and you aren’t privvy to all the details (which is also probably true)
  • be direct and tell her that you are just having a small gathering with your closest girlfriends

creepy alert!

 

Post # 9
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2012 - Sunset Harbour

@.twist.: Ooooo, okay. But that makes it even stranger that she would just invite herself. And what the heck is your Future Sister-In-Law encouraging this?

Post # 11
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231 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

A friend of mine asked to bring HER friend to my Bach Party. I thought it was cool because the more the merrier! At first I thought she was going to be quiet and awkward, but she taught us all a new dance at the clubs and was a HUGE blast to hang out with! Maybe give her a chance?

 

Do you HAVE to invite her to the wedding if she comes to the Bach Party? I didnt, and there was no expectation too. I offered my friend to invite her friend as her ‘+ guest’ if she wanted too.

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