- 8 years ago
- Wedding: August 2009
I will be a bride’s maid in a girl friend’s wedding in March. I currently live overseas and have communicated with the bride and bridal party that the only time I will be in the US is for three weeks in December and then right before the wedding and that if the bachelorette party isn’t during that time frame I unfortunately would not be able to attend. The bride understands that I live overseas and that if I am unable to attend it’s ok (the party will be in Vegas so not only would I be paying for my ticket home, Michigan, to see my family for x-mas, I would also have to pay for another ticket to Vegas and all the other expenses). Well I just received an email from the Maid/Matron of Honor and the party will be in Vegas the second week in January. My question is, if I am unable to attend the party, am I expected to help pay for all the festivites???