(Closed) Bachelorette Party Ideas (not wild and crazy)

posted 9 years ago in Parties
Post # 3
1041 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

I want to take a pole dance class with my girls and have an old school slumber party with food, games, and we will have drinks but you dont have to ;). Im not a huge bar person, and not really into strippers so i wanted an alternative too.

Post # 4
9050 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2010

We went on a couple wine tour tastings (which I realize is alcohol related), played mini golf, went for dinner then had an old school slumber party at a friend’s house.

Post # 5
338 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

Are there any dueling piano bars in your area?  You don’t have to have a crazy night of bar hopping & drinking, but it’s still a fun night out that I feel like could be enjoyed by all the ages you mentioned in your post.. You guys can order apps or other food, maybe have a few drinks, sing along to some fun songs.. They’re usually a really fun atmosphere, and if you make reservations ahead of time you don’t have to worry about getting a table or anything.

I drink, but not nearly as much/often as I used to, and don’t really want to do the whole get wasted & go bar hopping (nothing against those who do, I just don’t enjoy that scene much anymore), but I really want to go to a piano bar for mine.. I think it’ll be really fun.. I’ve always had a good time at the ones I’ve been to before!

Post # 6
10283 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2011

My wild and crazy bar hopping days are definitely behind me too. I have no desire to go out and get hammered and then feel like crap the next day.

What I would LOVE to do for my bachelorette party is go to a Broadway show and stay overnight in NYC (we live 3.5 hours away). Unfortunately, 2/3 of my girls are new moms and are really in no position to afford such a thing, nor would I feel comfortable asking them to so we’re planning on going out to a nice dinner and then to see a show at a local theatre (a few off-broadway shows come here through the year). My bridesmaids (my 3 best friends) and I did musical theatre together all through high school so this is right up our alley. Doing something like this also allows me to include my mom, Future Mother-In-Law and other female family members that normally wouldn’t be included for typical bachelorette parties. 

Post # 8
1295 posts
Bumble bee

Museums, salsa dance lessons, horseback riding, zoo, hike, movie marathon, board game night?

Post # 9
5117 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

I’m an ‘activity’ person, so competitive bowling between your girls or some town wide photo scavenger hunt (and you can incorporate winter things too, like building a bride and groom snowman for one photo, etc). I like some of the unique ideas the other bees have mentioned, like going out for pole dancing lessons (or roller derby!) and all coming back for a sleep over in PJs and sleeping bags watching movies from your JR high years. Any of these can have no alcohol or a little or a lot, participant’s choice. 

Post # 10
1636 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

Piano Bars are definitely a hoot!  very fun!  If you like the fun without the alcohol, then, definitely this could be for you. 

I also like the slumber party idea.  It was so much fun last time I did (and alcohol free) We had a fire pit outside and roasted marshmallows and made smores.  Oh! definitely don’t forget the junk food! LOL…  perhaps a piano bar (wayyyyyyy fun!!!!!  that gets my vote) then a slumber party! fun times:)

No matter what you decide! have fun!



Post # 11
3637 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2015

Laser force!!! (Not sure if you call it that in America, it’s like paint ball but no bruising because you use laser guns.) And a sleep over afterwards. 

Post # 12
6571 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: February 2010

What about pottery painting or a jewelry making class? For one of my parties, we did jewelry making and then back to a friend’s for tons of food and game night.

Post # 14
2239 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

What about Dave and Busters or a “grown up” arcade like that? Or even go-karts? lol. My friends and I are going to NYC and I think we’re going to Lucky Strikes…an upscale adult bowling lounge thing.

Post # 16
309 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

A friend of mine did something like what you’re looking for– we started off playing Whirlyball, then went to a hotel to open presents, out to dinner, and then went back to the hotel, where there was a chocolate buffet in the lobby! It was so nice! 

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