(Closed) bachelorette party ideas/help!!!

posted 9 years ago in Parties
Post # 3
300 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

My Maid/Matron of Honor and I were discussing this just a few days ago – I think we are going to do a 1920s speakeasy theme.  I think the clothes, jewelry and makeup from that era are pretty popular for everyday wear right now, so we can get dressed up without looking costume-y.  Not sure where you are located, but here in SF there are a few clubs and bars with sort of a prohibition feel to them.  I was thereafter prohibited from coming up with new ideas so as to not plan my own bachelorette party, but I think it will be a good balance of fun, theme and non-trashiness.  

Post # 4
6 posts

1920’s theme! Love it! TTry hitting Miceli’s in Los Angeles if that’s the area you’re in. You could also throw some swing dancing in the mix. There are some venues around LA/OC for a lesson and some dancing. The movie 500 Days of summer had a couple of cool bars in it that would be pretty swanky if you’re looking for a martini. 

Another possible option would be a wine tasting. You could hit a local wine bar for that or head to the nearest winery. Even better if you could combine it with a chocolate tasting. I know a classy Champagne bar if that interests you. 

Chocolate tasting might be fun as well depending on where you do it. 

As for other themes, I’ve seen a lot of New Moon parties popping up but that doesn’t strike me as fitting your criteria of elegant. =) How about choosing a color combo and everyone has to wear outfits with those colors. More possible themes: Masquerade, Cupcake Cuties (think bold colors, sugary sweet), Mad Men – drink martinis and dress the part. 

I saw a hilarious bachelor party the other day. Their theme was Grumpy Old Men. You have to check it out: http://jesihaackweddings.blogspot.com/2009/11/grumpy-old-men-day.html

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good luck 

Post # 5
298 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

We’re doing a cocktail theme — firstly, going to a studio where they do 3-hour hat-making classes for hen (bachelorette) parties, including champagne and finger food, so we’ll make cocktail hats. Then go out for cocktails, then back to a fancy hotel to watch movies, have in-room manicures, and… drink more cocktails, I guess!

Post # 6
4464 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

Wine tour?  A lot of people are doing those nowadays.

Post # 7
409 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: January 2010

I’m pretty sure I want something delightfully trashy- just because I’ve never been able to be trashy before. weiner earrings, anyone?

Post # 8
2015 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2009

I think the cocktail theme is pretty cool. Or what about a “Mad Men” theme? You guys could all dress up like bored 1960s housewives (kind of a play on the whole getting married thing in a society that doesn’t expect women to be seen and not heard). Go to a fancy dinner, go out for cocktails later and maybe come home for an old movie marathon slumber party?

That’s my idea of fun, haha. [attachment=516948,68087]

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