(Closed) Bachelorette party including bridesman… slightly less fun?

posted 9 years ago in Parties
Post # 3
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2009

Hmm… who is he? I have in my life had a few guy friends who are "one of the girls" and we didn’t really have to censor ourselves in front of him. I know I’d prefer girls-only to really be girls-only, but I think I could make an exception.

Post # 4
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2009

Hm, depends.  One of my best friends is a guy I’ve known since 4th grade and he’s standing up as a Groomsmen in our wedding.  Maybe he technically should be on my side but for the sake of symmetry, we’re just counting him as a Groomsmen.  I definitely thought I’d be inviting him to my bachelorette, because he’s one of my closest friends and he’s been there for me longer than ALL of my girlfriends.  We definitely have a very non-censored relationship, there’s not a lot I would tell my girlfriends but not him.

But you have a good point that I hadn’t thought about!  The girls attending might definitely be a little uncomfortable or disappointed having a guy at a party meant for the ladies, no matter how close I am with him.  You’ve given me some food for thought, haha.  I think it’s definitely fair to feel that way.

You’ll still have a great time at the party I hope!

Post # 5
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

Why do people only talk about sex during bachlorette parties? Or think it is an excuse to get all ‘sex and the city". I went the the party of this girl 9friend of a friend who was in her wedding) who was so conservative and NEVER talked about sex or anything … then all of a sudden she has a penis on her head and is talking like a sailor. It all seems so fake to me. If you would talk about sex on a normal basis having a guy there shouldn’t be a problem. If you are only talking sex because it’s a bachlorette party-I don’t understand that. I am having a bridesman in my wedding-he’s invited to all festivities-and no one is acting silly about conversations that haven’t happend yet. You might not talk about sex at all.

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