(Closed) bachelorette party making me feel like a b**

posted 7 years ago in Parties
Post # 3
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6394 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2011

Could you just get together with a group of your East Coast friends for a night out? I might drop them a short e-mail and just let them know that you’re not expecting them to make the trip, but that it also didn’t feel right to just leave them off the invite list. I think they’ll appreciate knowing you’re not mad at them for not going :). 

Post # 4
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

It sometimes is a conundrum. If you send an invitation to someone you know likely won’t be able to attend, you waste energy worrying about what they think of your intentions. If you don’t send an invitation, then you worry that they might think their presence wasn’t wanted.

Let it go.

If you want, send them a quick email after you received their response and tell them that you COMPLETELY understand their not being able to attend and look forward to seeing them at the wedding(obviously to those who have RSVP’d yes).Or that you will miss them at this time in your life but will share pics as soon as you can, to the rest.

Post # 6
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6394 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2011

@Entangled: I totally think the e-mail will be enough, then. Just let them know you love them and appreciate them, and I can’t imagine anyone being upset 🙂

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