(Closed) Bachelorette Party Planning is making me cry… vent

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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5965 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: April 2018

Don’t cry!  It’s ok!  Your Mom just wanted something special for you, and I get her perspective of you hosting your own bachelorette party, it always turns into work when you host….It sounds like everyone is really interested in doing something you want, and you sincerely don’t care, so everyone is kinda stuck…If it were me I would pick something, anything!  A movie night with drinks at someone’s house, mani-pedi party at a salon, bowling, whatever, give them some direction and I’m sure it will come together just fine….

Post # 4
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1019 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

first off: its okay! Take a deep breath, everything will work out.
Secondly, I think that if they think you sold them out, they’re being silly. You didn’t want to put too much on your Maid/Matron of Honor which is understandable and your mom didn’t like your SILs idea. I think… you’re trying too hard to just “go with what’s easy” If your mom wants to help plan it, that’s great I think you deserve to have something nice done for you- but it’s okay for you to have an opinion and I think the reason you’re “gettin’ into trouble” is because you’re just going along for the ride. Maybe pick one thing you would like to happen, suggest it to whoever is planning, and let them surprise you from there… but don’t worry too much about it 🙂 Everything will work out

Post # 5
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1686 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

Don’t cry. 🙂

First of all, remember, the Bachlorette party really isn’t your job. 🙂 Why don’t you just get the three of them together, tell them, “Surprise me!” and let them work it out on their own?

Don’t worry so much about putting people out. I’ll let you in on a secret — when people offer to help, when they’re asking what they can do, it’s because they *want* to do something to help. 

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