- 5 years ago
- Wedding: June 2013
My Maid/Matron of Honor and bridesmaids have said they wanted to throw a bachelorette party, and they each asked me what I wanted to do. I said I was open to most ideas, but the only thing I really wanted was to go to a bar and hang out with everyone. I said any option of mini-golf, bowling, or a spa earlier in the day was fine (since they wanted an activity earlier in the day), as long as we had the bar night. I also said, I really wanted to do a Saturday since it worked best for inviting my future SIL and cousin who lives out of town.
Well, I got a phone call earlier from a Bridesmaid or Best Man with their preliminary plan and there is no plan to go to a bar 🙁 That was the only thing I really wanted to do, and when I expressed this, she sounded annoyed. She said she’d see about it and discuss it, but that they wanted to do a Sunday night and no one would want to go drinking on a Sunday night. Well, then why not plan it for a Saturday like we discussed?!? If we do Sunday, I know no one from out of town can come.
I don’t want to sound ungrateful, but this isn’t what I wanted at all, and I’m rather upset about the whole thing. If they didn’t want to include any of my wishes in the event, than why ask in the first place?!? Should I call my Maid/Matron of Honor and talk about it? Or just leave well enough alone, and just plan my own bar night to celebrate?