(Closed) Bachelorette Party Situation

posted 9 years ago in Parties
  • poll: Would you switch the date



  • Post # 3
    5842 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: May 2011

    I wouldn’t change the date at this point. You won’t look bad at all. She had ample opportunity to let your Maid/Matron of Honor know about conflicts.

    Post # 4
    13561 posts
    Honey Beekeeper

    Bless your heart for even asking, but no, I wouldn’t switch the date.

    I know you’d like her to be there, but this party isn’t about her. And it’s way more important for the people you’re closer with to be able to be there.

    Smaller bach parties are still totally fun! I decided for mine that I was only inviting my bridemaids and the girls who were doing readings in the wedding because they’re my best girl friends. One of my friends doing a reading got sick the day of mine and had to bail, so we were at seven people instead of eight, and we still had an absolute blast!

    Post # 5
    5072 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: October 2012

    Do not change the date.

    It doesn’t make you look bad at all.  The world doesn’t revolve around that girl’s schedule  

    Post # 7
    4674 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: August 2012

    I wouldn’t change the date at this point.  I was in a situation where we changed the bachelorette party in the bride, but this was only because no one we invited RSVPed yes, and we could get a couple more attendees if we did it at a later time.  If more couldn’t attend I would consider changing the date, but just for one I would say NO.  

    Post # 8
    2703 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    Is it her high school graduation or for someone she is close with?  Did she just find out when graduation was?  I suggest that you or your Maid/Matron of Honor cal the other girls going and ask if they can switch dates and do your best to work to find a date that works for everyone.  But if people have made plans for other weekends and just can’t switch the date I’d just stick with the current one. 

    Post # 10
    3771 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: December 1999

    I would just tell her it is too late to change you plans, the reservations are made. It sounds like you were really flexible when picking the dates and if this were really a huge event to her (the graduation), she could have said something earlier.

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