(Closed) Bachelorette Party Surprise- the saga of willpower

posted 5 years ago in Parties
Post # 3
989 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

Mine was a surprise except for dates and city, which was okay by me.  I usually am totally Type A and need to know everything, but I forced myself to just go with the flow and told myself I’d find out what we were doing when we got there.

And then I got there…and they wouldn’t tell me anything!  I’m a pretty schedule-oriented person and I can’t stand to be the only one in a room who doesn’t know what’s going on, so when my BMs kept saying “Oh, should we tell her what we’re doing next?  No, let’s not tell her yet…” it drove. me. bananas.  Especially since we ultimately ran late most of the day.  It was an amazing party, I was just not as relaxed as I had hoped.  I kind of wish I had asked my BFF to quietly give me a heads up on the day’s activities when we got started so I knew what to expect.

Post # 4
1416 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: January 2013

I planned mine. I told them exactly what I wanted and then they picked out what places it would occur (italian dinner, karaoke with showtunes available, stay at a hotel), but I knew everything beforehand. I’m the planner in the group. I despise surprises. I wouldn’t attend a party that was a suprise, I’d flip out LOL.

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