(Closed) Bachelorette party vent.

posted 8 years ago in Parties
Post # 3
1057 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2010

Kids…. at a bachelorette party? I’ve never heard of that. I’d be PISSED. I feel for you… poor thing.

Post # 4
3564 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

I’m sorry it’s been so difficult to get all your girls together in one place! 🙁 I totally agree with not wanting the child there; I don’t think it’s necessarily appropriate to have a child at a bachelorett party anyway. Could maybe your parents watch the child, if you and the Bridesmaid or Best Man are really close (if your parents are in the area, I mean)? Or do you have a local college that might have sitters for hire?

Post # 5
505 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

I wouldn’t want a child at my bachelorette party either, this is supposed to be the one last night that I get to party with my friends before I get married.  Don’t get me wrong, I have 2 kids and don’t have a problem with kids, but you have to draw the line somewhere.

Can you help her find a babysitter?  maybe someone you know who will do it for free or cheap, your mom?  a sister?  A friend’s daughter?

I have a bridesmaid that has not been able to participate in anything, I don’t know if its because of her job or because of her controlling boyfriend though.  I have accepted the fact that there is a very good chance that she won’t come to my bachelorette party, and I am not going to bend all of my plans just to cater to her schedule/boyfriend/etc.  At this point I just hope she makes it to the rehearsal and wedding.

Post # 6
652 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

I’m sorry you’re going through that.  I would tell her that the party is for adults only–you shouldn’t feel bad for that.  It’s not like you’re demanding an extravagant rager of a bachelorette.  I know it sounds easy to say from my end, but try not to worry about it too much, in my experience, each and every bachelorette party has been fun because of the people that were there, and not because of the people who changed their minds last minute.  

Post # 8
965 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

can u help her get a babysitter?

Post # 9
27 posts
  • Wedding: February 2010

This is such a toughy. There’s really nothing you can do. It’s your day. I’m sure she’ll understand if you tell her that it’s an adult affair. It’s your one night to drink, talk about sexy times, and indulge in being a Bachelorette.


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