(Closed) Bachelorette party vent (and it hasn’t even happened!)

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
753 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

I think that you have every right to be upset.  The bachelorette party is the responsibility of the bridesmaids.  I mean I guess one is not required, but I don’t know any of my friends who haven’t had one. 

Could you have a conversation with your Maid/Matron of Honor and tell her how you feel?

Post # 4
3943 posts
Honey bee

Hopefully when your Maid/Matron of Honor comes back from vacation she will have more time to help. if you do have everyone stay at your house I would talk to your Maid/Matron of Honor about your concerns-spending time cleaning, getting ready, buying food. Maybe she and or the bidesmaids will pitch in. Buy some pizzas and breakfast food, and some cocktails of course 🙂


Post # 5
2907 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

@mkewed2010:Having them there is the blessing. I arranged most of my bacheloretter party and in the end it was AWESOME because all the important people were there.


Post # 7
10714 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2012

If it makes you feel better I have to plan my own bachelorette party too =( and It’s just a terrible reminder I have no close friends.

Post # 8
10851 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2010

My bachelorette party was a disaster. Two of my BMs were supposed to be working on it, but they let another friend take it over (even though I told them not to because she’s notoriously flakey). Guess what happened? The girl that flakes out flaked out and the whole thing went to pot, only no one picked up the pieces! About two days before the party I figured it out, told my sister (MOH) and she took over and sorted it out last minute. Since it was so last minute, most of my other friends who I wanted invited weren’t able to come. It sucked. Not the party itself (well the party wasn’t spectacular, but I enjoyed the time with my girls), but the way it made me feel, so I get where you’re coming from. It made me feel like no one gave a crap about me, our friendship, this big change in my life, nothing.

Like the PPs said, talk to your Maid/Matron of Honor about it. It’ll work out in the end. I mean, when it boils down to it, it’s supposed to be a fun time for you and your girls, so just stay focussed on that.

Post # 9
713 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

Ugh – that really sucks! I’m sure you guys will have a great time, but it’s too bad that you are having to put in so much work.

We’re supposed to be renting a cabin for a weekend sometime in August but I don’t think my Maid/Matron of Honor is organizing it very well. I’m afraid it may just fall through.

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