(Closed) bachelor/ette party vent FI being ridiculous

posted 8 years ago in Parties
Post # 3
529 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2009

Oh wow, strange.  Can you try talking to him when he calms down and figure out what is so upsetting to him about this?  I’m the Maid/Matron of Honor in a wedding coming up and we’re taking the bride to NYC for her bachelorette party, a good four hours away.  The groom’s boys are taking him to Chicago, a good day+ trip, and no one seems to be upset about that.  I just don’t understand why your Fiance is upset.  I think you need to get to the bottom of his concerns to see if they are truly valid or not.

Post # 4
532 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

Why would he be so mad that it’s a few hours away? I don’t understand why that would be an issue. It’s not like he has to go. Is he just trying to be controling?

Post # 5
18637 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

Is there some underlying cause for him freaking out like that?  Big deal you are going out of town, you aren’t getting a stripper yourself or anything.

Post # 6
96 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

That’s weird.. my fiance and I are both having out of town bachelore/ette parties.  Maybe you should explaing to him that this isn’t up to him to decide… it’s YOUR last night out as a single woman, not his 🙂

Post # 7
972 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

I think he’s worried that you wont be able to make it home because you will be drinking.  My man doesnt like it when I drink and drive either no matter how far I have to drive.  Ask him why he is so upset about it and if its because of that then tell him you will keep it to one drink an hour and you will eat like a pig!  My Fiance is having his bachelor party first and his brothers loves strippers so I told him he can have one but no private strippers!  Just strip clubs!  His brothers are party animals so I told him if he doesnt come home that night not to expect me to come home on my night, haha, fair and square

Post # 9
1756 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

That’s really bizarre. My fiance and I live in Pittsburgh. His bachelor party is going to be up near Niagara Falls, and my bachelorette will be in DC (where one of my bridesmaids lives). Both will be for basically the whole weekend. Could your fiance be worried about someone possibly driving home drunk and getting hurt?

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