Post # 1
So my girls and I were trying to figure out what to do … Vegas Vegas Vegas
We plan on going to Vegas to some clubs for dancing and then maybe do a pole dancing class. However we just found out that one of the girls would be 7-8 months prego by the time that happens.
Should we scratch it out completly just because she got prego?
Post # 3
Can you maybe go for dinner or something beforehand so that she can be somewhat involved in the day? That way she doesn’t need to be there for the dancing and things but she’ll still feel like she’s involved.
Post # 4
Well we def planned on doing that.
I just feel bad for her to go all the way to Vegas (3 1/2 hrs) drive with us and not be able to do anything. Those are the things she loves to do too.
Though she tryed to get prego on purpose around this time… thats a whole other story. lol
I guess i need to worry about myself foronce and not others… Selfish maybe but im always thinking about everyone else and planning around them.
Post # 5
i would do what you want to do, it’s your party! tell her to do only what she feels comfortable with, i’m sure she’ll understand.
Post # 6
There are lots of things to do in Vegas besides drink. You could change your plans a little bit, like instead of going pole dancing, go shopping. Or go to a show. Or just go sight-seeing.
But I wouldn’t change all of your plans- she might not even come if she’s 8 months and huge or having a tough pregnancy.
Post # 7
Plan what you want to do, have dinner with her beforehand, and if she wants to come, kudos! She may not want to dance and everything, but she may still really enjoy a fun night weekend out =]
If I were her, I could see myself being like “no i’m coming dude!” and going, but maybe watching tv when you guys go to a club. And man, I’d bring my camera to that pole dancing class just for blackmail! What do you think your friend would do? Do you think she’d get pissy and just go “well obviosly I can’t go!” or do you think she’d make a good faith effort?
And I don’t think a 3.5 hour drive is a big deal for a short weekend unless she’s having complications
But yeah…I think if it’s already what you guys wanted to do, do it and roll wtih it. This is definitely a time it’s ok to be somewhat selfish.