(Closed) Bachelorette Party with Prego Bridesmaid Help

posted 8 years ago in Parties
Post # 3
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

Can you maybe go for dinner or something beforehand so that she can be somewhat involved in the day? That way she doesn’t need to be there for the dancing and things but she’ll still feel like she’s involved.

Post # 5
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: February 2010

i would do what you want to do, it’s your party! tell her to do only what she feels comfortable with, i’m sure she’ll understand.

Post # 6
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Bumble bee

There are lots of things to do in Vegas besides drink. You could change your plans a little bit, like instead of going pole dancing, go shopping. Or go to a show. Or just go sight-seeing.

But I wouldn’t change all of your plans- she might not even come if she’s 8 months and huge or having a tough pregnancy.

Post # 7
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

Plan what you want to do, have dinner with her beforehand, and if she wants to come, kudos! She may not want to dance and everything, but she may still really enjoy a fun night weekend out =]

If I were her, I could see myself being like “no i’m coming dude!” and going, but maybe watching tv when you guys go to a club. And man, I’d bring my camera to that pole dancing class just for blackmail! What do you think your friend would do? Do you think she’d get pissy and just go “well obviosly I can’t go!” or do you think she’d make a good faith effort?

And I don’t think a 3.5 hour drive is a big deal for a short weekend unless she’s having complications 

But yeah…I think if it’s already what you guys wanted to do, do it and roll wtih it. This is definitely a time it’s ok to be somewhat selfish.

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