(Closed) Bachelorette Party Woes

posted 6 years ago in Parties
Post # 3
1271 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

That is not a bachelorette party, to me.  That is a “Girls’ Trip.” 

Post # 4
434 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: February 2012

Ditto what Lulusmom said. But you kind of need to make it clear that this is a *bachelorette* party and if they come, they aren’t welcome out with the party girls at night (I mean I can’t see anyone thinking they’re going to bring 15 year old girl to a..bar? club? I mean, that doesn’t make any sense, lol.) It might get a little touchy, and I wouldn’t just say “not welcome” but you need to make it pretty clear what your intentions with this trip are.

Post # 5
2416 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

I’d be bummed…mothers are not condusive to drunken debauchery 🙂

Post # 7
2247 posts
Buzzing bee

I can definitely see why that is bothering you.  I am sort of in a similar predicament, minus the children.  FCIL and her Darling Husband refuse to go out anywhere without each other, which is pure ridiculous to me, so THEY have decided that OUR bachelor/ette parties are going to be one, big group outing with everyone present.  FCIL said it’ll be Future Father-In-Law and Future Mother-In-Law with us, among others (probably FMIL’s two friends).  Wtf?!  I’m not gonna let loose in front of FMIL’s friends! 

Don’t get me wrong, I’m not wild, at all.  I have two drinks and I’m falling over.  But, I’m not gonna wanna get silly drunk in front of them.  I really wanted a girls night to have girly fun.  Maybe my sister and I might still do something like that, but I know that FCIL and Future Sister-In-Law are not going to participate because their SOs can’t come.  Pretty lame =/

I am sure that your little cousin and your mom won’t wanna go out partying at night.  Are they staying in separate hotel rooms?  Just explain that you guys will be going out and partying at night as a bachelorette thing.

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