(Closed) bachelorette party/girls night?

posted 10 years ago in Parties
Post # 3
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402 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2008

i love this idea and i believe i will be feeling the exact way as my day gets closer.

its sounds like a great time to me, but i could be biased. i think your friends will jump on the oppurtunity to hang out with you as a single chick. i dont think the activity is as important as the time spent would be.

you could throw it yourself…tho i dont know actual ettiquette. if you did it for yourself perhaps you could say "in lieu of a bachelorette party…." but maybe you could put the bug in your MoH ears or flat out tell them what you want and hopefully they would comply.

  i have a friend who does Pure Romance. i dont want to turn it a sales event. maybe more of a show and tell with explicit directions. that and some music and movies sounds like a great time to me. more like an adult slumber party.

 

Post # 5
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402 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2008

were you planning on getting some of the stuff yourself? maybe you could get your friend to demo the items that you are getting or have you eye on? or better yet, get her to demo the more "extraordinary" stuff. the stuff that makes people giggle, that sort of thing…..

 could you roll everything into one day? have a "nice" shower and then an adult type shower afterwards? could your sister and friend get sitters for that nite?

 

Post # 6
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Worker bee

I think your party sounds like a blast!

However, I have to chime in and say that I don’t think it’s ok for you to host this. It would be one thing if you were inviting your girls to come over for drinks and Sex and the City, but since you are asking them to spend $$ and bring you gifts (lingerie), it looks bad if you are the one throwing it. Of course, you could always chip in and have someone else’s name (like the MOH) on the invite.

 

Post # 8
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1458 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2008

I’m with you, that sounds like a lot of fun!!!! I’m not doing the typical party either. In fact we’re thinkging about combining the rehersal dinner and stag/stagette parties all in one. Just start the "party" time later when those who don’t want to join in filter out.

I have to say they grooms party was appaled at this idea because you know men, they here stag party and think "strippers!" well FH so disilkes the idea of this. In fact any time he has been to a strip club in his life he has sat at the bar talking with them….not getting lap dances…lol. His friends teased him that maybe he played for the "other team" LOL!

 

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