- 8 years ago
- Wedding: October 2010
I love my bridal party gals (one gal on grooms side will be involved in girl activites) my Maid/Matron of Honor and man of honor both live out of state (different states) and one bridesmaid lives here local. Im actually dreading my bachelorette party. my mOH and bff of 15 years offered to do invites/help with party as much a she can at her distance, my local gal actually kind of started planning the night, but she wa going in a direction i didn’t care for (strippers, etc, NOT my thing and totally uncomfortable to me) she was very adament, so i decided to help as well as my Maid/Matron of Honor since she knows me better and what we would like to do…well she’s being moody and now uncooperative she’s bringing more drama than i care for, she totally isn’t willing to work with my other Bridesmaid or Best Man, and is having a jealousy thing, she even got so upset and mad me so mad, i told her to stay home in the heat of the moment. Of course I want her here and she is coming, but she’s not being communicative to me and I dont want to step on her toes but at the same time, i’d rather just say screw it and go out with my man of honor…invites should be going out soon (shouldnt they? I dunno) I dont have a ton of girlfriends to invite, i’ve only lived here a few years, and am just not a super social person…ugh advise? should i just take it over myself? or scratch it? I know at least 2 ppl are looking forward to it, as well as i am, but im afraid theres going to be unecessary Drama which i despise!