(Closed) Bachelorette/Birthday Party?

posted 5 years ago in August 2013
Post # 3
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337 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

I would say maybe invite those birthday people to a birthday dinner then go out afterwards with just your bachelorette party people. I think my feelings would be a little hurt to see everyone celebrating your wedding that I was not invited to. But on the other hand, if you want them to go out too you can just be up front with them and tell them the reason they are not invited like, budget/guest constraints. I personally would understand then, but just to leave it unsaid would be a little awkward. But everyone is different 🙂

Post # 5
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2013 - Rocky Mountains USA

@MsPanda:  I think it might be kinda weird to have friends at your party who aren’t invited to the wedding.  I’m sure you and your BMs will be talking about the wedding, right?  Just seems ripe for awkwardness…

Post # 6
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

Have you spoke to the ones that aren’t invited to the wedding as to why? If there is a reason and they all understand it might be ok to combine both. But it could be weird so maybe consider just keeping it more bachelorette party and save the big birthday one for next year?

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