(Closed) Bachleor Party

posted 8 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2012

@Miss Rosie: My rule is strippers only in a club. No strippers in a private hotel room. That will be a dealbreaker for me. I would seriously cancel the wedding if he betrayed me like that. 

Post # 4
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Busy Beekeeper

i have a no strip club, no stripper, no nothing rule!  but i am not afraid to admit that part of this comes from my own insecurity.  Lucky for me, Fiance has no interest, so its a non-issue. but had i stayed with my ex (who i was with for 4 years), it would have been a major issue! so i remember the negative feelings that go around this.

Post # 5
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2010

i guess the only rule was no kissing, touching the working gals

i had no issue with my hubbys b party having strippers and a live girls sex show. apparently there ended up being 2 groups of guys on the night, one group was loud and in the front row, the other group (inc hubby) was out the back eating, having a quite drink and talking/catching up

 

Post # 6
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205 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

Good rules.. I might do the same. I read a shocking story on IndieBride about the break-up of a marriage over the “strippers” who provide extra services. I also had an ex tell me all about this raunchy bachelor’s party he attended.. I had trouble looking at those guys for a while! I don’t mind if they go look at girls dance or something, but “feeding the kitty” or some other such game is a deal breaker for me.

Post # 7
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2011

@Miss Tattoo: Thats my rule too. FBIL’s bachelor party was at a hotel and they had the strippers go there. I won’t go into specifics here but should you be interested in hearing the things that went on, feel free to PM me. 

I dont have a problem with strippers or lap dances, for that matter. I trust Fiance and I know he would never do anything to hurt me. With that said, HE has made it clear to his brother that he doesn’t want strippers (he finds them repulsive) and his brother actually said “I don’t give a F what you want”. THIS I have a problem with. Fiance would much prefer to just hit up some bars with the guys or go to a comedy show (my idea but he loved it) but since his brother is his best man, I just know that he’s going to go against FI’s wishes and have strippers. Hmm, last I checked the bachelor party should be what the GROOM wants, right? 

Post # 8
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369 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

The boys can partake in fun, embarrassing, and drunken activities that do not involve paying women for any sort of entertainment. 

Post # 9
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: February 2011

@Miss Tattoo: agreed! though the only time Fiance has ever been to a strip club was with me and some mutual friends after quite a few hours of drinking. so i dont worry too much about his bachelor party.

Post # 10
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Bumble bee

Those sound like very good rules. 

Post # 11
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654 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

I don’t have any rules.  I really couldn’t care less where he goes or what he does.  Hell, I’d go along if they’d let me!  Reallistically though, my fiance is revolted by all those kinds of things and doesn’t have many friends here (he just moved) so I doubt that there will even BE a bachelor party, and that even if by some miracle there was, that he would allow anything gross to happen.  Who knows, though.

Post # 12
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2010

@UpstateCait:  “I don’t give a F what you want”

so true, my hubby said that his b-party was the party that the organizer wished he always had – my hubby said that our wedding was just the excuse the guy needed to arrange it

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