- 4 years ago
So my wedding is 2 months away and a few months back I had talked to my bridesmaids and they asked me questions about what I would like for my bachlorette party/bridal shower. I told them I did not want something super formal or expensive but something in town so many of my friends would be abe to attend. After that, they didn’t want to involve me in the planning and so I just let it be….well now it’s 3 weeks away from my supposed bachlorette party date and no invites or anything has been sent out. I have been taking to other friends of mine and since it’s the summer, they have already made pans to go out of town that weekend because they did not know I was going to be having my bachlorette. I feel sad because I wanted as many of my friends to attend as possible, but because the bridesmaids did not let anyone know about the date, there are very few people who will be able to make it. I talked to my Maid/Matron of Honor about it, and she thinks a 3 weeks notice is plenty of time. I discussed changing the date to a weekend father away (2 or 3 weeks later) so guesta could have more notice but 2 out of my 4 bridesmaids said that if I change the date they will not be able to make it because they have plans. My Maid/Matron of Honor has left it up to me to decide if I should keep my original date or change the date….thoughts???