(Closed) bachlorette party….i’m a little nervous :)

posted 8 years ago in Parties
Post # 3
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

I can totally understand being nervous and self-concious about opening up personal gifts in front of a crowd.  I’ve been to my fair share of Passion Parties, but even I drew the line at the “Lingerie Shower” because I don’t find it amusing to open up those kinds of presents in front of people. 

I would have your Maid/Matron of Honor spread the word that you would prefer items of a more conservative nature- massage oils, lotions, etc., vs vibrators and crazy sex toys, and nice, pretty lingerie/nighties/robes vs crazy crotchless panties or the like.  I think it’s possible to do a “Personal Shower” in a very tasteful way and in a way that you would feel comfortable.

There is still the possibility that someone will go over the top- I would just giggle and say “Thanks!” and move on to the next gift if that happens. 🙂

Post # 4
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

I don’t know if this makes me sound terrible or what but I like the idea. I think it’s a fun way to kick off your party. I dont know that I would have friends buy me sex toys but having the party and being there would be fun. Is there anyone on your list that you think would be offended? if so, then I might reconsider. Your Maid/Matron of Honor could have people still buy you gifts but maybe regular registry items? Toy parties I’ve been too have always been a good time to laugh with the girls. Dont’ worry too much about it. Have fun!

Post # 5
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

Ok, I would be a giggling little girl the whole night.  I guess you can call me a prude!  I wouldn’t be comfy talking about that stuff, or having my friends know what I will be using at home.  Ah!  But, this is going to be a fun/funny night.  So don’t be nervous, just a lil anxious.

Post # 6
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

 It doesn’t have to be about sex toys-that IS personal to a lot of people.  I second miss root and go for pretty nighties and the like.

Post # 7
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

I’ve been to you; it’s not that bad. Mostly it was just a bunch of girls giggling and having a good time.

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