(Closed) Bachlorette weekend turned out not so good….

posted 7 years ago in Parties
Post # 3
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2010

I think that when the bride is ready to go, all of the others should be too. I mean, especially if you are bar hopping. It’s YOUR night, they get to call the shots all the other nights they come with, so I don’t see what the big deal should be. 

Post # 4
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

did you have something planned for afterwards or were you just wrapping it up?

Post # 5
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Honey bee

I am torn, If I were the friend, I would go.

However, depending on the time and you were “done” and I was that person, I would want them to stay and have fun. Especially depending on the time. Are we talking 10pm or 1am?

Post # 6
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

If you were going to do something else then they should have left with you. If you were calling it a night ang going home or something why couldnt they keep partying?

Post # 7
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2011

eh I’m sort of torn on this.  If you wanted to go do something else, then yes everyone should go with you.  But if you were just calling it a night, then why not let the rest of the girls stay and have fun.

Post # 8
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: January 2012

I think they should have gone with you.  They are celebrating you, so it seems like they should want to be wherever you are!  And it’s just one night… they can go out again another night if they want!

Post # 9
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

Yea, I think it reallly depends on the circumstances.  Depends what time in the night it was, what everyone was doing, and if you were doing anything after.  If you weren’t doing anything after and everyone was having a good time, I don’t see the problem with them staying.  But if you already had a good chunk of time there and were planning on something after, I would say they should’ve gone with you.

Post # 10
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

I agree that if you were just heading home, they should have been able to stay and hang out. Just because you went to bed, doesn’t mean they had to stop celebrating. However, if you wanted to do something else, they all should have left with you. 

Post # 11
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2012

I have to agree with some PPs.  I guess it really depends on the situation.  You didn’t share all details so I am going to have to say that they are adults and if they want to stay out and enjoy the night, then good for them! 

I do hope you had a great night besides that incident. 

Post # 12
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2012

Whoopsies daisies!  Double post – WB told me I actually needed to submit content, but it looks like I already did. 😉

Post # 14
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

You said you wanted to call it a night. Obviously the evening with you would have been over.

Were you all staying together and spending the weekend together? If you were all staying at a hotel or cottage etc, then I think they should have gone home as a group.

If not, I think they were perfectly entitled to you carry on. It’s not as if you were going somewhere else as a group.

ETA- you just posted additional information. As I said before, if you were all staying together,  they should have gone back to the accomodations with you. It was definitley inappropriate to bring the guys back.

Post # 15
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

@ADBK2011: Bringing guys home for Bachelorette party= not ok. I would be upset!

Post # 16
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2012

@ADBK2011: wait…they brought guys to your house? 

I can see wanting to stay out if you were calling it an early night and didn’t have anything else planned. What are they suppose to do? Watch you sleep? 

HOWEVER, bringing guys back is not cool. 

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