(Closed) Back from Hawaii…an update

posted 6 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

Aw I am sorry it did not turn out like you had planned.  At least you are both on the same page and know it will be happening sooner rather than later!!!

Post # 4
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: February 2008

I’m sorry:(

 

But inwould suggest holding off on movinnshe proposal he proposes.  Afather 7 years it seems odd he prioritized a trip to Hawaii over an engagement…..

Post # 6
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

congrats on the awesome trip! sometimes it’s hard to get over the high expectations and just enjoy the quality time with SO (i had to do it during our last getaway), but the disappointments only bitter up your life. cheer up, you know it’s gonna happen anyway 🙂

Post # 7
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2015

Congrats on an awesome trip, but I agree with Sunchick19. If it were me I’d wait on the move. I’d tell him I’d move back in once we were engaged, just because you lived with him already and no proposal happened and you’ve been dating awhile.

Post # 9
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: February 2008

@purpledaisiesyou obviously you know what is best for your own relationship!  But even before the issues with his mom, you guys must have been together at least 5 years.  Is there a reason you weren’t engaged before this?  Did you start dating really young?  I would just worry tsuch given you have hung around for so long already moving in might just delay or further…

Post # 11
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Bumble bee

What’s important is being happy in your relationship and being on the same page, and I think you’re doing very well at that : ) I’m glad Hawaii was awesome!!! Sounds like an amazing vacation.

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