(Closed) Back here after a heart wrenching couple months

posted 7 years ago in TTC
Post # 3
273 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

I’m so sorry to hear about what you’ve been going through with the mc! I hope your TTC stay is short and that you’ll be holding your rainbow baby soon! Welcome back =)

Post # 4
2814 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

I am so sorry that you are experiencing the pain of a loss. Do you have an online support group? Or one IRL? I know on another forum that I visit (Just Mommies) there is a great community of women who support eachother through thier loss(es). Sometimes it is helpful to have other women to chat with who have gone through a similar loss.

I hope that your next steps in TTC are smooth and quick! Good luck and *big hugs*

Post # 6
2089 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

@mrscandyv:  I’m so sorry to hear about your MC. You sound very strong and brave. I hope you conceive really soon 🙂

Post # 7
8882 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper

I’ve been thinking about you a lot. I know that your BFP is just around the corner *Hugs*

Post # 8
9681 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper

@mrscandyv:  I’m sorry. I’ve experienced 2 and it’s never easy.

Post # 9
7646 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2012

I’m so sorry for your loss. Many hugs xx

Post # 10
960 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2015 - Historic Chapel

@mrscandyv:  I know how a miscarriage can feel I just had one back in April, so I’m sorry you had to go thru that 🙁 on the bright side I’ve heard you are way more fertil after having a miscarriage or giving birth! I got pregnant again just a month after having my miscarriage, so it is possible! I know you will get your rainbow baby soon!

Lost of sticky baby dust for you!!!

A “rainbow baby” is a baby that is born following a miscarriage or still birth.

The storm (pregnancy loss) has already happened and nothing can change that experience. Storm-clouds might still be overhead as the family continue to cope with the loss, but something colourful and bright has emerged from the darkness and misery.

Post # 11
2226 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: January 2012

It breaks my heart to hear this awful news. I hope your healing process is a short one and that your rainbow baby is coming soon. When I miscarried in april I found that although people around me tried to comfort me, they managed to say the least sensitive things possible (-At least you can get pregnant, -You can always try again, etc).

 If you need support, there are a group of wonderful ladies in the TTC after MC thread that were indispensible to me when I got back into TTC. Just reading their stories made me feel less alone and many have gone on to have successful pregnancies after recurrent miscarriages. Made me have hope!

Post # 12
3755 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

@MrsRugbee:  +1 Hearing “encouraging” words from people in real life is rough. The Bee is such a great support system.

I’m so sorry you are going through this. I hope you get your sticky bean very very soon. 

Post # 13
881 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

I am so very sorry for your loss.  I had a miscariage in March and we did the same thing you are.  We waited for one normal cycle and then started trying again.  I do believe women are more fertile after a miscarriage, we got pregnant our first time trying after ours.  I really hope you get a sticky baby soon.  The hurt/pain from a miscarriage never goes away but it does get a bit easier to handle with time.  Hugs to you and your husband.

Post # 14
264 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

@mrscandyv:   I am so sorry you had to go through a mc. There is a lovely bunch of ladies in the ttc after miscarriage group,  come by if you haven’t already.  

Post # 15
4690 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2013 - Upstate NY

I’m so sorry to hear that. Hopefully you find some confort here on the Bee, we are here for you and many ladies understand what you’re going through!!

Post # 16
2902 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2014

Oh honey I’m sorry to read this. I’m sad you are back under these circumstances but you are in the right place, there is lots of love on these boards. Baby dust to you xxxx

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