- 5 years ago
Well if you read some of my previous posts…the past few months, I mean years have been crazy. I broke away from a very unhealthy relationship/engagement. It hasn’t been easy but I can say I am in a better place. With all this though I have also been out of the dating game! YIKES! So I need some advice.
I have recently re-connected with a guy friend I grew up with, I have always had a crush on him, I’m in my late twenties and have known him since I was a kid. When I was going to college he was actually engaged to be married himself but unfortunately his wedding was called off. Over the past 6 years we have kept in touch but because I have been in a relationship it was nothing more than “hi, how are you” or “remember when we were young” kind of converstions. Well…now he’s single and we have since been talking frequently. He has expressed interest in me (flirting text messges). He lives out west and I live in the midwest and even connected with him when I was on business and we had a blast, but he hasn’t come out and said he likes me. In fact he’s very shy. I’m very outspoken, because he has been in some bad relationships he is very guarded and VERY hard to read. But he acts like he likes me and I obviously have given off the vibes that I like him. My question to you bees is what do I do? Should I come out and just ask him how he feels? Why is he so hard to read? I don’t want to look desperate but I could see this going somewhere and he makes me happy. In fact he’s so sweet and nice to me.
Thanks so much!!