Post # 1
We’ve been married almost 2 months and I just have THE worst attitude. A coworker had a horrible attitude when she came back from getting married and it was hell being around her. I don’t think I am that bad as I don’t let it out usually but still nonetheless annoying. It’s mainly at work though and it’s semi receptionist like so whenever someone comes in, I groan. It’s off and on.
Did anyone else experience this? Everything marriage/home wise is great.
Post # 3
I was a receptionist at a hospital while I was in school. I hated it. People are jerks. They would scream at me “ALL YOU CARE ABOUT IS MONEY” when i asked for insurance cards when they checked in ect…I’m like “seriously, do you think I actually SEE any of your money?” It’s a horrible, thankless job and you are supposed to take loads of craps while smiling. I’m sure it has nothing to do with your marriage.
Post # 4
People can be flipping rude.
My job has it’s ups and down but I used to be so passionate about helping people but I’ve done a complete 180. We also gave up sugar and candy for Lent but I’ve been this way before Lent even started. I haven’t had a visitor of the month since November/December so maybe it’s Aunt Flow needs to make an appearance?
Post # 5
That’s quite sometime without your period.. do you think you might be pregnant? Or maybe your horomones are just way off balance? I would definitely say that could be playing a role in the issue.
It could also be that you are a little disappointed that the wedding / planning are over and it’s just hard to readjust to normal life. Or that you are so excited about new hubby that being at work and away from him makes you crabby.
Do you think it could be any of those things?
Post # 6
Thanks for input rnc620! No I am not pregnant. I have to take BC continuously for health reasons so I don’t have a period so that’s why I haven’t had one since then, I don’t think. It may be because of the wedding but we are still dealing with it in a way: trying to get pictures together, selling things, etc. but I wasn’t so happy during the wedding planning. Me and Darling Husband have a lot of time together, in fact tonight will be my first alone time in 2 weeks. I love my Darling Husband but I look forward to tonight so I can take care of a few things around the house.
Post # 7
I think you are just under a lot of stress with all of the adjustments. Give it time and keep looking at the positive and you should come around in no time.
Post # 8
Oh man, I have the worst attitude sometimes when i’m away from my fiance and i really don’t want to be. I work shift work, so i have 3 days on, 4 days off, 4 days on, 3 days off kind of deal….After 4 days of being together I am a cranky sourpuss the first day I go back to work. My coworkers have pretty much come to accept that I need my space the first day back! Hah.