(Closed) Bad Bridesmaid, what should I do??

posted 7 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
1844 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

  Could you go get coffee with both girls and talk about what’s coming up? I can possibly understand not getting alterations yet (when I was a Bridesmaid or Best Man, I waited until later, because I was in the middle of losing weight). Right now would be a good time to meet and go over when to do certain things. Maybe your Maid/Matron of Honor could talk to her in private…you said that the three of you are good friends, right? Also, I don’t know what you were planning on doing for their gifts, but could you maybe offer to pay for shoes or something for your other Bridesmaid or Best Man in lieu of getting a gift?

  I’m sorry you’re in such a tough situation :-(.

Post # 4
4803 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

Well, you can’t really require specific shoes and accessories – I’d say give her a color or style so she can wear something she already has. As far as alterations go, if the wedding comes and the dress doesn’t fit her, then she’s essentially removed herself from being a bridesmaid. I think you need to worry about fixing, or at least figuring out what’s going on with, the friendship before the Bridesmaid or Best Man stuff.

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