Post # 1
I’m having my first bride etiquette issue. I want to ask my older sister to be my maid of honor in a special way. Her birthday is coming up and I saw a picture frame on etsy that says ” The only thing better than having you as my sister would be having you as my maid of honor” or something along those lines. Is it a cute idea to wrap it up for her bday present or is that totally inappropriate and I should think of something else? Thanks y’all!
Post # 3
I think the picture frame is sweet, but not really a birthday gift. And it also kinda makes her birthday about your wedding. I’d get her something else for her birthday and give her the picture frame another day.
Post # 4
thanks! i was kind of thinking that too!
Post # 5
I think you should do it but not as her only birthday gift. Maybe put it in with something else that is an actual gift for her to use and isn’t about your wedding.
Post # 6
@Wonderstruck: +1, cute idea, but her birthday is about her birthday, not your wedding (no offense).
Post # 7
agreed with everyone else on here. Don’t make her birthday about your wedding. Leave it for another time