(Closed) Bad karma (energy sent my way) nearly killed me? (very very loooong)

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Post # 3
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Buzzing Beekeeper

Can it be that a person is so jealous that the bad energy they produce can make an impact on your life (over the distance)???

No. Although it may be a sign you should stop talking about weddings with her?

Post # 4
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: January 2011

Is it possible? Maybe, who’s to say it is or isn’t.  I tend to be someone who believes in stuff like this, but it could just be coincidence.  Have you had fights with you guy without talking to her before hand? Have you tripped before?  I feel badly for you and your friend.  It must be hard to have those conversations without feeling like your bragging (which I’m sure you aren’t)

Post # 7
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Bumble bee

I definitely believe in negative energy. She might not even be doing it on purpose, but I think yes, there might be a connection between her negative feelings and the bad things that happen to you when you talk to her. 

What do you think you are getting out of this relationship? Negative energy or not, it sounds like you two have less and less in common, and your friendship has been reduced to occasional awkward conversations. It’s completely natural for people to grow apart even if they have been close friends in the past – maybe it’s time to let yourself and Hope grow apart as well? 

Of course, you might want to stay friends and see how it goes. If it were me personally, I would probably move on. 

Post # 8
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Buzzing Beekeeper

@Fegele: But for whatever reason now she seems upset about the life you have now. It’s too bad, but friends should be happy and supportive of each other. And if one person can’t do that, it’s best to focus on topics that don’t involve money or financial status. It can be hard when a friend moves on to a better life and you’re still in the same situation, you know? Maybe she feels like you were easier to relate to when you were in similar situations. But whatever the reason for her jealousy, you aren’t doing anything wrong. You’re obviously a great friend for trying to spare her feelings, but you don’t need bad energy at a time when your life is happy and positive.

Post # 9
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

I think you have a concussion.

Post # 12
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Honey bee

@Fegele: I don’t think you tripped and fell because of “bad energy”. But maybe you were distracted by your conversation and wasn’t paying as much attention. 

Good people get hurt/maimed/killed every day. Meanwhile, lots of “bad” people are living it up. Things happen.

Just think, if negative energy and thoughts towards a person really caused them harm, then Osama bin Laden should be dead already.

Anyway, I do agree you should stop talking about finances with her. But it’s hard, I mean, you have to share about your life, and your lives are just so different. Maybe just try to focus on her more.

Post # 13
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

Ok, first of all, getting sick after a bad fall isn’t a good thing. 🙁 Go to the doctor, girl!  You definitely could have a concussion!  Feel better!

Also, I kind of buy into bad energy just because it probably makes you feel bad, puts you in a bad mood, and bad things happen to people when they’re in bad moods. 

Take a hot bath…it’ll feel good on your broken body and maybe it’ll help you feel like you’ve cleansed all that negative energy! 

Post # 16
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

I agree with @JrzyGurl:. If you got sick later that night (vomited) there is a good chance that you have a concussion. If I was you I would call a doctor or go to MedExpress.

Good luck with your friend.

 

ETA- Just saw what you posted above. Just take some asprin for the fall and you will feel better.

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