(Closed) Bad luck to stay together the night before the wedding?

posted 11 years ago in Relationships
  • poll: Is it bad luck to stay together the night before the wedding?



  • Post # 32
    355 posts
    Helper bee

    i don’t think it’s bad luck. but i think the suprise of seeing each other on the aisle for the first time that day will be so worth it. i imagine it will be the best feeling ever!

    Post # 33
    2204 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: June 2009

    I said "no" because I don’t believe in luck, but I also don’t believe in living/sleeping together before marriage, so we didn’t!

    Post # 34
    230 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: September 2009

    I don’t think it’s bad luck at all – I would be so happy to wake up next to my FH and just have a few minutes of quiet time in bed together.  However, I think that we’ve decided that I will stay in our hotel room with a few of my bridesmaids, and he will stay at our house with the friends from out of town who will be staying there.  I think it will be such a fun night with some of my favorite girls.  I might change my mind, though.

    Post # 35
    7172 posts
    Busy Beekeeper

    It’s not bad luck, but it would kill the anticipation factor for me.

    Post # 36
    2004 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: November 2008

    I wouldn’t go so far as to say bad luck either….but I like the symbolism of spending that last one night apart as a single person. It really lets you mull over the decision you’re making for yourself!

    Post # 37
    151 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: September 2009

    Our ceremony doesn’t start until 7:30 pm so we haven’t really decided yet…if we decide that both of us are going to sleep at our house and part ways in the morning, we still have the ENTIRE day of the wedding where we won’t see eachother…so I don’t think it will ruin the anticipation.

    But, like I said, we haven’t decided yet ๐Ÿ™‚

    Post # 38
    774 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: March 2010

    I am starting to lean towards not being apart the night of. For one, we may have some guests stayingw ith us. Also, i can just as easily get up and be out of the house running errands and what not, check in to our hotel and get ready there. Its not completely decided yet. Another thing is, only two of my girls are single and would be able to stay with me if I did sleep somewhere else.

    Post # 39
    495 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: September 2009

    we’re goign to stay together in a hotel room.  my FI’s mother will drive him crazy otherwise, this way I can calm him down ๐Ÿ™‚  We’re doing rehearsal day of plus pics ahead of time, so I guess I’m throwing that all out the window!!

    Post # 40
    3124 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: December 2009

    I would totally wig out if on the biggest day of my life so far my fiance was somewhere else.  of course I’ll be sleeping with him the night before!  The first look of the wedding day will be of me in my pajamas with messy hair.  ๐Ÿ™‚

    Post # 41
    3979 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: January 2012

    We’ll sleep apart the night before… I’m looking forward to the anticipation of our first looks ๐Ÿ™‚

    I don’t think it’s bad luck… I think being apart will just make it more special (for us).

    Post # 42
    103 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: August 2011

    I think what to do on the night before relies more on your relationship style than on tradition; I can’t imagine not spending the night before “the rest of our lives” together, I want to wake up on that day and see his face.  We’ll go get ready separately so he can see the reveal, but for this introvert I definately need to have some quiet time with him that morning before all the craziness starts. Gosh I already have butterflies thinking about it!

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