Post # 1
going anonymous for this one…Happily engaged planning the wedding of my dreams here. Lately I’ve been having lots of thoughts of past lovers. I would never act on these thoughts but I dont know why they only started happening after we got engaged. Is this natural to some extent?
Post # 2
anonymousanneee : yes. It’s common and it’s normal.
Post # 3
I think it’s natural, even when you are married. I know I don’t think about my past boyfriends on purpose they just pop into my head all of a sudden. Like you, I would never act on my thoughts. I just put it out of my head and move on Lol.