(Closed) BAD Waiting Day :'(

posted 8 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
6739 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2014

OMG you’re probably just hormonal from the PMS… but seriously, YOU KNOW HE BOUGHT THE RING.. you know it’s coming soon!  Let him do it on his own time and make it special for you!! 

I know the annoyance in having to wait for a ring (I’m there, too) – isn’t it nice to be able to come here and vent?  Just keep venting to us and don’t let him have the pleasure of torturing you while you wait. 

I bet as soon as you stop asking for it, he’ll do it.

Also, my friend’s Darling Husband waited SIX MONTHS before he proposed after he got the ring.  Seriously.  Six months!  I think there’s a thread with a poll that shows how long guys have waited after they got the ring, so you can get an idea. 

But.. don’t you want it to be a special proposal?  Do you really just want him to give you the ring?  The ring might be here but maybe he’s planning a proposal and that’s not ready yet.  Just wait it out!  At least the ring is here.. it’s not like you’re waiting and don’t know when it’ll happen.  Any day now, girl!

Post # 5
275 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

I hope this makes you feel better. My wedding is in 2 months. I have no ring. I feel completely silly planning a wedding when I’m not even “officially” engaged. I broke down to SO last night, because I feel completely stupid talking to anyone wedding related because I don’t have a ring on my finger, so I don’t feel like they take me seriously. He told me to just be patient. Gah.

I feel your pain. HUGS!!

Post # 6
8036 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2013

@futuremrskrohn:  Don’t know why guys do this. If he bought the ring then get the damn proposal over with since you KNOW he has the ring.

Yeah if he was sitting on it and you didn’t know, then fine… but this is just silly.

Post # 8
705 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: February 1993

I would have a serious issue with the way he’s treating this.  This is a proposal for marriage between two adult humans, not a dog with a treat on its nose waiting for the owner to say okay.  The fact that he’s enjoying this ‘torture’ is extremely unfortunate, as is your reaction to it.  You need to calm down (seriously) but he also needs to understand that this isn’t appropriate.  Cant you see that for yourself?  I hope you can.

Post # 10
5072 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2012

The fact that he “loves torturing you” is sad. 

I wouldn’t mention the ring ever again. 

Post # 11
2023 posts
Buzzing bee

๐Ÿ™ *hugs* I’m a horrible hormonal mess when I’m PMS’ing too. Our last big talk a few weeks ago, to include ugly crying, was while I was pmsing. I just couldn’t wait any longer to talk to him because I was feeling so out of whack.

Hoping for a proposal soon for you! *good vibes*

Post # 13
1311 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

PMS can get me to go from happy to crazy in 60 seconds LOL.

My last one lasted 3 days and the only thing that I manage not to do is throw plates ๐Ÿ™‚ (it gets expensive)

Just have some wine and watch a chick flick, don’t forget some treats too. Have “YOU” moment and if you need to cry it out then do so, get it out of your system. Tomorrow is another day and sun will shine and you will be in control over your emotions again.

Your SO bought the ring, he wouldn’t have done that If he wasn’t planning to make you his wife, just breathe in the experience ๐Ÿ™‚

Men like to tease with the proposal stuff, it puts them in control and i guess they find it cute ? LOL, I don’t know why they do it but they do. Start ignoring it a bit ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 15
2522 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

@futuremrskrohn:  He had your daughter say that?

He sucks monkey balls.

Sorry your situation sucks right now.

Post # 16
2023 posts
Buzzing bee

@futuremrskrohn:  Must be someting in the water this month! I literally cried for 3 days straight, multiple times a day, and almost gave the “marry me or I’m out the door” ultimatum. (Like – I had my friends on standby in case I needed a couch to crash on)

By The Way – Today is our 7 year anniversary! Whew! Can we say 7 year itch?

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