(Closed) Bad waiting day :( (kinda long)

posted 7 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

I’ve had an end of year promise too. I know i’ll be crushed if he puts it off just to surprise me. 

I am a bit further along in the process now – he actually has the ring – but I have been where you are. On New Years Eve 2009/10 he we chatting in bed after midnight – suppose it was actually new yers day πŸ™‚ and he promised that we would be engaged by the end of the year. New Years Eve 2010/11 came and went and still no proposal. Looking back on it I think I kinda puched him into saying it and it was for financial reasons that he didn’t. He has the ring now but has it on a financial plan where he can take the ring home and pay it off weekly no interest or anything – take home layby I suppose. 

ANYWAY…I get what you are feeling because some days I have really bad waiting days when I am like…he could have done what he is doing now last year but…I also know when it happens it will be the right time for us. 

Mind you I have been going absolutely spare the last few days DYING for it to happen πŸ™‚

Hold on there…i’m sure all the bee’s are there to support you πŸ™‚

Post # 4
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

pushed him* NOT punched him – that makes me sound terribly violent! I am not – I promise πŸ™‚

Post # 5
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2010

I kinda puched him

heheh πŸ™‚

OP, if it was me i would have said “what do you mean by hopefully” but then again im pushy – i can only hope he wont let you down and in the meantime dont let this one word spoil the next few months for you, dont forget to enjoy the now as its another building block for your future together

Post # 6
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Bumble bee

I’m also on the year end plan and will be VERY upset if it doesn’t happen by then.  Especially because he already has the ring and knows that I know that.  Actually, I’m almost positive that he had the ring in his pocket on Saturday but either didn’t see a good chance or couldn’t work up the courage or something.  It drove me CRAZY.  Either that or he is now growing a ring box shaped tumor on the side of his leg πŸ™‚

Post # 7
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Sugar bee

Hopefully? Yeah. That would bug me too. Granted, there’s always the chance he used the wrong word. I would have done what eloping said. I would have asked to. Is it too late to get clarification? Maybe a “What did you mean by hopefully?”

Post # 8
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Newbee

Just let it go.  Sometimes guys will say things to throw you off.  It sounds like that’s what he’s doing.. 

Post # 9
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Helper bee

@happy2bee:  Ring box shaped tumor!  I just literally just LOLed.  That made my night. 

Post # 10
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2010

@HopefulInLove: i thought she was going to type ring box shaped penis

Post # 11
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Bumble bee

@happy2bee:  Ring box shaped tumor made me laugh. . .especially being in a medical field.  Lol πŸ™‚

Post # 13
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Newbee
  • Wedding: November 2012

I bet he is just throwing you off! My Fiance said the same thing and I was getting kind of sad around June/July when I asked for a season (haha)… he said WINTER. Ugh, I was thinking winter could mean this year or next year. So I kinda gave up on it and to my surpsise he asked me August 19th. TOTALLY unexpected. I think the biggest part for them is making it a surpise!

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