(Closed) Bad waiting month | Vent

posted 5 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2015

@Rananteriel:  Sorry you are going through this! After 8 years, I would feel the same too. I don’t know your SO’s financial situation, but what about him not getting you an expensive ring? Does he really know how you feel?

I wish I had some tips to give! <3

Post # 5
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Bumble bee

@Rananteriel:  Oh my goodness, from reading your past posts you are the one who is stuck in a rut! Good lord you are miserable! 8 years and you are still waiting for marriage and to lose your virginity? You are a saint. You say you should be happy with what you’ve got but you don’t sound happy at all. You sound beaten down. Are you sure this is what you really want?

 

I hope this doesn’t come across as snarky I’m just trying to point out that maybe waiting longer isn’t the way to go about this. 

Post # 7
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Bumble bee

@Rananteriel:  I don’t think you should give up anything else for him and that includes time. As a 35 year old woman to a 28 year old woman these are your glory years! Don’t waste your pretty on someone who isn’t as serious as you are. I’m sure you love him. I wish you loved yourself more though.

Post # 9
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Bumble bee

@Rananteriel:  Ok go back home and enjoy yourself. You can meet someone else. If he isn’t fighting to make you stay he may not fight when you are gone.

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