- 7 years ago
- Wedding: September 2013
About a month and a half ago, I sat my SO down and told him that I was extremely confused about where our relationship was going (We live together. He had said that he wasn’t going to wait long to propose to me and then changed his story to ‘at least a year after we move in together’. This wasn’t working for me as moving in together was supposed to be a precursor for marriage so I told him that if he didn’t propose by the time our lease is up, I’m moving out. Not breaking up, just getting my own place.) Since then, I have had no problems with waiting. I’m be patient. Everything is great.
My best friend and I went ring shopping for her yesterday. Of course, I tried on a few in the process. I found a ring that I absolutely love. It is basically THE ring. In talking to the salesman about the changes I want made to it, he said that it could take up to 90 days for the ring to be finished. I’m fine with this as our lease isn’t up for another 6 months. But that also means that SO would need to start looking in the next couple of months.
When I got home, I told him about our shopping trip and mentioned that I had found a ring that I really love. No comment. He just nodded. Why isn’t he taking this seriously!? I know he wants to marry me. He told me that I wouldn’t be waiting much longer for a proposal. So why isn’t he more interested in this?
Sorry, it’s just a bad waiting day for me 🙁