(Closed) Baddass Bees, share your bad dating experiences with me for some perspective

posted 3 years ago in Relationships
Post # 31
1815 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2016

itwillallworkout :  true story!!! He was from my hometown in Southern Alberta, and his wife was killed about a year after they were married. I’ll have to see if I can find an old newspaper clipping, or photo of her grave.

Post # 32
3092 posts
Sugar bee


mishybear :  Wow, the term ‘you dodged a  bullet’ could apply to you literally. That’s crazy.

Post # 33
7200 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2015

itwillallworkout :  Oh homie…. I have stories. 

So I met this one guy on a dating site. Went for a first date, it was nice. We were chatting on the phone before our second date and I mentioned I was helping my manager go through resumes. He asked if I would be a reference if he applied. Weird but said ok. Second date was great. He got an interview and we planned coffee when he was done/before I went into work. I had decided to tell my boss not to hire him because I thought it was weird, but at coffee he said they hired him on the spot! We went out for 8 months. We were never exclusive, but I did check in with him multiple times to see if he was dating anyone else. He always said he wasn’t but was ok if I wanted to. I tried to break it off around 5 months in but he begged for another chance and I gave it to him. Then he attempted to ghost me 8 months in. Keep in mind- we still worked together. And I was not his supervisor, but in a higher position in the same department so I had to assist him if he had trouble with something, things like that. Anyway, about a month after he just randomly stopped talking to me I imported my email contacts into myspace (yes, this was a long time ago) and found out he had a profile. And via that profile I saw he had a girlfriend…. of ten years. TEN YEARS. And he cheated on her with me for 8 months. And decided to get a job at his mistress’s office! What the fuck? When I confronted him he acted like I was in love with him and that’s why I was angry. What the fuck ever, fuckboy. 

Then the last guy I dated before my husband… I got a text from someone saying “Hey this is S***** how are you?” And I was like “S who?” cause I know a couple guys with that name. The guy acted like I should know, then finally said we’d met on a dating site THREE YEARS PRIOR but never got together. Weirdo. My BFF advised me to give him a chance, which was stupid but I did. He was such a loser. In his late 30s, still living with his parents, mostly not working. Whined about everything under the sun. I don’t know why I kept dating him. It was so dumb. I finally stopped talking to him when he slapped me. Yup. Slapped me across the face. 

Over a year later I get a text from him which you can read about here: http://boards.weddingbee.com/topic/crazy-ex-texted-me/. Be sure to read page 4 for a several months later update! This asshole is a gem. Thankfully, after the second text I haven’t heard from him again.  

Post # 34
704 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2016

Oh I have tons from online dating. I use to give them nicknames lol.

Pervy Prince: Worked for Disney. Tried to date he only wanted sex so we became weird friends. Anyways found out he ended getting arrested for sending lewd pics to a 16 year old.

Smelly dude: We went ice skating. He tried to be too touchy feely on a first date. I had a friend call me to get out of there. Like dude seriously shower before a date.

the cheap ass: wanted to always go Dutch after he was the one to invite me out, stole my Chanel sunglasses. 

The cheater: we dated on and off for over two years we were only official for a few months in the beginning because he wasn’t ready to date…refused to let me meet his friends because I was “fat” I was a size 8 at the time. Anyways we had started to date again and he added me on Facebook where I saw his girlfriend of nearly two years…blocked him and stopped falling for his crap.

jr. high crush: he dated two of my friends in high school, tried to have me break up with one of them for him. I refused lol. We stayed friends on and off through college years. He always told me he liked me but I wasn’t his type. He is like 6’6 and liked tall skinny girls. And he wanted to make sure he had tall kids. Mind you I am 5’6 and come from a tall family on my dads side. Anyways I had lost 80 pounds and again a size 8 and we got closer. Hooked up. He asked me if I would lose more weight for him…ya last time I saw him we basically cursed out each other. My Darling Husband is actually an inch taller than him.

oi I dated arses lol

Post # 37
10664 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: City, State

TaurianDoll :  

Rofl about the ankle bracelet.

Post # 38
1593 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2017

annelise210516 :  All my exes and ex-dates are EXACTLY what you describe. They’re not assholes! They’re soooo nice! If a woman is ever unhappy with them, it couldn’t possibly be their fault because they’re SUCH NICE GUYS. And any woman who isn’t interested in them is a stupid bitch who only dates bad boys.

I should have run from my ex-husband the day he explained, in great detail, why he was not a feminist.

Post # 41
3823 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

sassy411 :  I felt like I was being punked lol

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